My husband of 8 years and I separated almost 3 months ago after my life coach (and who I considered my close friend) helped me realize why my husband is not compatible with me. She really helped guide me through the process and pushed me to move forward with it.
After my separation, I heard from her less and less because she is busy starting a new career/going back to school/etc, and I also moved away from the neighborhood. Last month, I randomly ran into my soon-to-be ex-husband at the airport lounge. He was a bit awkward and I thought given the circumstances, I didn’t think much about it. But when I headed to the ladies’ room I caught a glimpse of my life coach/friend hurrying out and she didn’t even acknowledge me. I tried to find her in the lounge after I used the ladies’ room but she was gone already.
Yesterday, I stopped by the old house mid-afternoon when my work schedule opened up unexpectedly. I wanted to grab some remaining things in the garage for the holidays. I texted my husband to let him know I was going to drop in a few minutes before I got there. I figured he would be at work and it would be a good time for me to drop in to avoid more awkward encounters. Before I even parked the car, I saw my life coach’s car pull out of the garage. When I parked the car, I saw that he had texted back telling me it wasn’t a good time because he took the day off from the flu and was home and didn’t want me exposed. I didn’t go in and drove away.
I want to give my life coach the benefit of the doubt but I’m not dumb. I know how this looks. I just don’t know how to approach this because I haven’t spoken to either of them in a long time. Did they start dating even before my separation? Was he the reason she house sat and pet sat for us so often? There are so many questions swirling in my head and I’m embarrassed to even verbalize them. So here I am.
TL;DR: I suspect my life coach/good friend is dating my husband (separated) and I am not sure how I feel about it. Should I even care?
Submitted November 16, 2018 at 12:22PM by anonymust411 https://ift.tt/2Bew657
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