My boyfriend (34M) and I (29F) have been dating for about 6 months and things have been going well. My only hang up in the relationship is that he follows quite a few cam girls accounts on his Instagram.
In general, I have no problem with him watching porn, I just want him to be more private about it, and I do not like how accessible these girls are to him, considering they are only a DM away. Overall, it feels disrespectful of our relationship. I am still trying to figure out exactly what it is about it that makes me uncomfortable.
I asked him if he could please unfollow these girls and he has agreed, but he also shared that he doesn't like me dictating who he follows and that it feels "controlling", etc. I understand his side, but this is the only thing I have ever asked him for.
I am totally fine with him following female celebrities and other women, just not cam girls. He even says himself that I am very easy going.
That being said, I am worried that I have overstepped. I still believe I am right in asking him to unfollow them, but is it controlling?
Thank you!
Edit: thank to all those that have replied. One thing I want to note - maybe I phrased it wrong but some of you are saying I “demanded” he unfollow these girls. That’s not the case imo. I told him it made my uncomfortable and asked if he minded unfollowing them. I never said he must do it. The choice has always been his.
TL;DR - My boyfriend follows a lot of cam girls on Instagram and I asked him to unfollow them. Is it controlling? It makes me deeply uncomfortable.
Submitted February 06, 2023 at 07:08AM by LifeguardFlimsy https://ift.tt/g6XVyoR
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