OP
I'm on my phone but I wanted to give an update because people like them. First off, thank you for all the replies. Emotional manipulation is hard especially in a relationship. For me, I like to see the goodness in people and I trust people, which are great qualities, it can also set me up as a target. Thank you for confirming what I was seeing and feeling, it's difficult to see these abuse tactics from inside, so much so that you start to actually think what this person is speaking truth because why would they tell you differently. I mean why would your partner be intentionally hurtful?
On to the update
I didn't want to ghost him because I think that's mean so I sent him a short text that said "I don't feel that we should see each other anymore. I wish you the best of luck."
He sent me a couple of wtf texts, with the last one saying "you didn't honor your promise to me. I'm not trying to hurt your feelings but you don't keep promises." Followed up with "I'm a really awesome person, you'll come to your senses and figure it out. Let me know when you are brave enough to be an adult relationship." Ending with that "I doesn't deserve to be treated this way and I will tolerate it but you're amazing and I love you. Please don't contact me again"
There was more, it was pretty lengthy but that's the core of the message.
I read it and said oh okay, don't worry to myself and blocked him.
So not a big drama, it's just over and I'm done. I'm going to take some time to myself and do some home projects that I've been meaning to work on and enjoy the holidays with my friends and family.
Tl,Dr I broke with him and said some stuff, I blocked him and taking time for myself
Submitted December 21, 2019 at 07:16PM by Redflagboyfriend https://ift.tt/2sQMQ0w
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