I literally just cried because he made a massive deal out of coming to pick me up when my bus didn’t turn up. I asked him what was wrong and he’s just being blunt with me and saying he’s not angry, he just didn’t want to come get me and he wanted to keep on playing his PC. It just makes me feel awful. I don’t understand why he acts like he hates me half of the time or maybe he’s just not good at showing affection?
The other day he just kept snapping at me and ignoring me all night, some days he’s fine but others just make me feel like crying and I feel awful. I don’t understand what I’ve done wrong. I’ve tried talking to him but he just get defensive and says he isn’t pissed off but he’s literally yelling at me over it? So he clearly is. How do you go about this? We’ve been together for 2+ years and my friend said it’s probably because he’s comfortable now and knows I won’t kick up a fuss. He said if he wouldn’t have come I would have got angry at him for not coming but I’ve never been like that and it’s like he’s premeditated how I’d be before it’s even happened, assumed I would be angry when I would have just walked if he said no...
Tldr; bf keeps acting like anything I ask for him to do (go out for dinner, pick me up when my bus doesn’t turn up, spend time with me in general) is the biggest chore. He’s always pretty much been like this but changes all the time. what do I do?
Submitted November 22, 2019 at 10:54AM by pigeonluvs https://ift.tt/33bGu8p
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