I'm a 29 year old female who had 2 prior relationships that are both 3-4 years long. My first ex, we broke up due to us growing apart, having different life goals and him realising he is not heterosexual after all. Then, I broke up with my last ex 2 years ago because I was emotionally abused, and it took me a long time and a lot of courage to break up with him and walk away.
Now I've been single for 2 years, and I got over both my exes. No longer feel angry, guilty or sad over the break ups. I tried dating again, but I couldn't bring myself to move from casual dating to serious relationship. I feel like it's either my standards are too high or I'm just afraid of committing into a relationship and have to deal with all the things that comes with relationships e.g. less time for myself, my freedom to go wherever I wanted, partner's family etc.
tl;dr: Will I ever be able to get into a serious relationship again after being traumatised by past relationships? If yes, what do I need to do to be normal and ready again?
Submitted November 22, 2019 at 05:00AM by autumnturtles https://ift.tt/35weDB9
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