Bit of an odd thing but my biggest question in all of this - is this a form of manipulation?
He's said on multiple occasions that the thought threw him into panic attacks, that he'd be upset and disappointed in me if I did it. He says I need to "compromise" and not do it but I don't think that's a compromise at all. He says I have the most beautiful natural hair he's ever seen and if I change it, I'd be ruining it. I informed him my hair was not at all natural as I had the tips of it bleached blonde a while back and they were still there.
I've dyed my hair my entire life since I was 12. He knew this because I'd mentioned it before and he's seen old pictures of me. I stopped a year and a half ago due to the state of my hair but it's since been nurtured back to super healthy. Basically, I haven't dyed it since I've been with him.
My argument in this is that dying my hair makes me feel happy and more confident. Shouldn't that be what matters? Or am I being an inconsiderate asshole? Also that it isn't permanent and it's just hair.
tl;dr - Boyfriend is freaking out about me dying my hair when it's something that makes me happy & feel more confident.
Submitted July 15, 2019 at 07:17PM by ocularvoice https://ift.tt/2laM0rm
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