This story will be about me(21M) and my GF(18F) We have been together for two years and we’re from Poland.
So it all started one month ago, this dude started texting her on instagram because he wanted to visit our city (in Poland) and he said he wants her to guide him. At first I was ok with it but it seemed kinda fishy to me, I just feel that it’s weird to hit up a random girl on IG and ask her to guide you. So from the start I didn’t trust this guy but I didn’t want to show it too much yet. She texted him everyday and she would talk about him everyday until I said that it annoys me so she stopped for some time.
Then the day came, she met up with him in our city, he was with a friend and she also took two friends with her(I didn’t go). It was supposed to be a short guide around the city but they wanted this dude to come over to our house and drink. I didn’t feel comfortable with that but I said sure no problem to not be a douche.
When they came to our house my GF said that he bought her a gift from his country, it was some expensive wine and some bath products. As you might think I didn’t feel comfortable with that as well but I tried to keep it cool and give him a chance.
So we start drinking, chatting and time goes. I didn’t talk with him too much just a little bit. After some drinking, my friends went smoking on our balcony, me and one of my friends stayed in the house. I was chatting with my friend and then I see through the window that he holds her waist, and that's when it all accumulated in me. I went there and said to my GF that he needs to act or I will throw him the f out of the house. She said that she was drunk and she wanted anybody to hold her or she would slip and he was the closest. So I'm like whatever at this point.
My amazing friends didn't even wanted to hear how my perspective on this situation looks like, they just called me toxicly jealous and didn't let me explain anything.
So at this point I'm so mad, mostly at my friends and my gf for not trying to understand me and for not listening to me.
They left at around two at night. The next day I talked with my GF about the situation, at first she was arguing but then I explained my feelings and the situation with a lot of detail and she actually understood and said I'm right (my friends still think I didn't have the right to be jealous, yes they said that)
Alright let's now get to the point of the whole story. My GF said that I shouldn't be jealous, that's just a friend etc. She still texts this dude everyday, talks about him. I'm still not ok with it but acting like I don't care to not look overly jealous.
She recently came up with a great idea that she wants to visit him and stay for four days. She will be sleeping at his house (4 other people live there and share it)
I told her that I'm not okay with that, but she said there's no way she isn't going and I don't have to worry.
The thing is that I trust her but Idon't trust this dude and I feel very very uncomfortable even thinking about all of this. She will be sleeping there, drinking and partying and I'm worried that this dude will try something.
What should I do? Am I too insecure? I'm really lost in my thoughts and can't think clearly.
TL:DR - Some dude started texting my gf, visited our country, there was some bad vibes involved since the beginning and now my gf wants to visit him and stay for four days at his house.
Submitted June 16, 2019 at 03:25PM by Kid_Bu http://bit.ly/2ILaCPM
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