We were talking about how he and his brother have similar sentiments when it come to saying "I love you", that if you have to say it/hear it to feel loved than its not really love. My boyfriend's primary love language is Quality Time. My primary love language is Words of Affirmation. I told him that his brother's wife and I had talked about that and that her and I have a similar love language and he replied saying "your love language is an insecurity."
I feel invalidated and belittled. I've told him I want to talk about it more later, but I want an unbias opinion about his comment and what people think about love languages.
We're supposed to be getting engaged and married soon, and I don't even know how to react to this.
TLDR; boyfriend said my love language is an insecurity; I feel offended and confused.
Submitted June 19, 2019 at 09:39PM by Emoooooly http://bit.ly/2Y2Dh9e
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