So there's a popular pharmacy/store where it's known for their long receipts and last time I was there I had my email added to their system so it would stop printing the obnoxiously long receipts and the coupons that print out would be emailed to my email. My whole family uses the same number since we've been long time members. We rarely even purchase stuff at this store because sometimes they are pricier than other stores, this would be our last resort or "emergency" stop for us.
My brother (Who I will refer to as "Derrick"from now on) is off on business and he happened to go to one of these stores in the city he is staying in and to my surprise I received the receipt into my email and it showed me every single item purchased. The receipt has the location where the items were purchased so I know it was "Derrick". "Derrick" had left this morning maybe 6 am and the time of purchase was around 2 pm. "Derrick" bought sports drink, candy, lube and condoms(pack of 3). I was confused when I saw this email since I was at work. I figured that MAYBE his wife (who i will refer to as "Virginia") had gone with him and they were going to ya know, do some stuff together, whatever, cool. But Virginia was at home by herself. It being fathers day I waited to see my mom later on to ask her if "Virginia" had gone on the trip as well. Mom said no. So I asked if my "Derrick" ever mentioned meeting a coworker at the airport or maybe they saw this person at the terminal as well, and another no. My mom seemed confused by my questions so I stopped asking them and continued with our lives. She had mention that "Virginia" was at home and didn't want to come join our fathers day dinner.
My brother was diagnosed with bp2 and I don't want him to go into a psychosis again or have him institutionalized. I know his actions are not my fault but I just don't know how to tell "Virginia". I'm sure he's having an affair with a coworker. I already have a place to stay in case this boils over since "Derrick" is known to not recognize me/gets violent during psychosis.
My plan was to tell "Virginia" the day "Derrick" is due back, which is in maybe 3 days, i dont know exactly, but i dont know how to word it. Tell her in person? text? screenshot only? im scared.
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TLDR: brother bought condoms and lube, wife isn't with him. he's on a business trip. Don't know when or how to tell his wife. we all live together.
Submitted June 16, 2019 at 10:52PM by adviceo3o3o3 http://bit.ly/2WHF7Lm
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