I’ve never posted before so I hope this is okay.
I live in a small farming community with my mom, my dad left when I was three and my mom has never dated until now.
Her new boyfriend has been nice and perfectly fine for the past few months but recently he’s moved in and things feel a little weird. He’s commented how I should come and give him a cuddle, a kiss or sit on his lap while we watch tv as it’s what dads and daughters do. He’s commented on my clothing and how I’m looking ‘grown up’ and last night he randomly sent me a text while I was upstairs with the kissing emoji and goodnight.
When he was being cuddly the first time I told my mom it made me feel uncomfortably but she just told me he’s trying to be nice and trying to fit in to the family. They have also both made comments about how I’m just acting out because he’s taking more of my moms time.... I really don’t mind though... I just don’t want him to cling to me.
I don’t really know what to do now though. I’ve told him and my mom that it makes me uncomfortable but everything has become worse since then tbh. I would tell someone I know but it’s a tiny community and he’s loved here, they’ll just tell me he’s being nice.
I’m just at a loss and make sure to lock my door at night as he freaks me out. Any suggestions?
TLDR: my moms boyfriend is being weirdly clingy to me but everyone is saying I’m overreacting - am I being crazy?
Submitted June 17, 2019 at 03:09PM by thrownawayyyyyhgf http://bit.ly/2RkoJzr
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