Met a girl on Tinder a couple of months ago and we instantly hit it off. Most of our dates consisted of going out to eat and making out afterwards which is fine by me.
I eventually started developing feelings for her but she has a very weird sense of humor and never takes anything seriously so whenever I tried to have a conversation with her about where we're going, she'd usually dismiss it and change the subject saying I was too sentimental. She only gets serious when we go out to eat and she wants to talk about her day and specially work.
Her sense of humor is usually mocking me saying stuff like I don't work too much and about physical traits like height/hair. I mock her as well but usually on a lighter tone like her bad taste for movies and places to eat
Things kinda got to a boiling point this past weekend. She lives by herself and the first time she invited me in (a month or so ago), she told me to leave around midnight since it was getting late. The second time I got invited was this last friday. We went out to eat and she invited me to her place. Around midnight, I jokingly said I should leave since I didn't want to get thrown out and she asked if I had anything to do next morning. I assumed that was an invitation to sleep over so we started drinking and chatting and afterwards we fell asleep cuddling. Around 3 am, she suddenly wakes up and asks me to leave, bear in mind i'm pretty drunk and way too sleepy but it's her house so I leave pretty pissed off.
On saturday, I don't initiate contact and neither does she but around 7 PM she messages me apologizing and saying if i'm still mad and if I can pick her up at a party. I really don't mind since I was pretty close by so I go pick her and her friend up, both pretty wasted. I had a feeling she called me because it was raining and uber was pretty expensive. So I drop them off, she invites me in and we go out to eat afterwards and all seem fine.
On Sunday, I visit her place once again since I forgot my watch and when we start talking and get to the subject of family, I ask if she told her mother about me. She kinda laughs and says she didn't and when I said I did, she puts up a mocking smile. I think that's finally when I realize it all seems way too fucked up so I get the chance to ask one final time if she's seeing other people. She kinda rolls her eyes and says she can't answer that. So I leave without saying goodbye thinking that this is finally over and will never contact her again but she sends me a message saying we should talk about yesterday.
Reading this all, it really feels like I have no spine whenever i'm around this girl, which is usually not the case for me but I've fallen pretty hard for her.
My question is if I should close this chapter and block her off or if I should give it a chance and go meet her up for this conversation
TL;DR - Developed feelings for a supposedly toxic girl and wondering if I should give her another chance or block her off
Submitted June 17, 2019 at 10:55AM by Redditor19840 https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/c1qqn8/me_32m_need_to_know_if_i_should_give_this_girl/?utm_source=ifttt
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