Hey everyone, So I (27F) started dating this guy (30M) about 5 months ago. As of 4 months ago we decided to be in an exclusive relationship. However, I started to notice he seemed off. I had asked him if anything was wrong, If he was happy, etc., but he said nothing was wrong. While he was at work two days ago I decided to check his laptop (I know. Not good). I found out that he's on multiple different dating sites. I saw the extremely sexually explicit messages he sent to other women. He even sent his phone number to one (and am unsure if they contacted each other through text after that).
I confronted him about this and he said he did it because he was "bored", but had never had the intention of meeting any of these women. It did not seem like he met up with any of them. He's now allowing me full access to his phone and laptop. I, however am devastated and am not sure if I can get over this. I consider this cheating. He seemed remorseful and even cried a bit when I caught him. But now he gets angry with me every time I bring up how I feel about it or if I have a question about his behaviour.
Is there any salvaging this? Should I even want to salvage this? This is a guy I thought I was really falling for. But now I'm just confused.
TL;DR caught boyfriend of 4 months on multiple dating sites sending sexually explicit messages.
Submitted June 23, 2019 at 12:46AM by xoxanitaxoxo http://bit.ly/2Ya2oae
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