So I (25m) just found out my girlfriend (22f) has herpes. We've been friends for a while and started dating a few weeks ago, after having had a thing for a few months. We would always make out and do things for me (orally), but when I tried to do things to her she would always say no and be really resistant. I never forced anything on her, I thought maybe she just wasn't ready for that yet but now I found out the real reason. So apparently she has HSV-1 (oral herpes) on her genitals, and she got it from being eaten out by a boyfriend who had it. I've done a lot of research, and I guess it isn't that bad, it's not as bad as HSV-2 which is a much more volatile strain and has way more outbreaks and is just overall worse. Apparently she got it about a year ago, got it tested and found out, and hasn't had an outbreak since the initial one and even then it was just a few bumps that hurt. That being said I know she could be having outbreaks in her cervix and just not be aware of it, she said once she was having a PH imbalance issue which might have just been an outbreak she wasn't aware of. Anyway, I need some advice. I heard that as long as she's on the antiviral meds some couples don't even wear a condom?!? I think I'm always gonna wear a condom and avoid sex during her period cause I'm sure more blood involved probably makes things much more risky. Is this a deal breaker to any of you? If she's on meds and I wear protection do we have anything to worry about? Just want some help from people that have been through this or a say from someone who isn't blinded by love like I probably am...
TL:DR She has Oral herpes on her genitals and I'm just looking for advice from people who have been through something like this OR just people who can look from an outside perspective at this more reasonably. Should I dump her? Is this manageable?
Submitted March 28, 2019 at 02:29PM by Saucycabbage20sac https://ift.tt/2FIpr5o
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