We've been in a relationship for a little over 3 months and things were going smoothly until around a month ago. We live around 100 miles apart, so there is some distance between us. At first, I thought she'd ghosted me or something, so I was asking some of her family (who I was friends with) if she was doing ok and that she was getting better after she'd had a run in with some bad people over some drug issues (which I know is a huge red flag) but I assumed she was just a little shaken up so I gave her some space. A month later and I still hadn't heard from her, so I asked her cousin what was going on, which is when I was told that my girlfriend was dying.
Her cousin was irate when she told me about what had happened, shouting about how I should know about this kind of stuff, how I should have been there and whatnot, and it wasn't until another cousin of hers started trying to comfort me that I found out she was actually in a coma. I want to visit her but I don't know where she is, and her cousin (who is definitely not fond of me to say the least) said she'd tell everyone that I'm not good for her.
I was heavily considering ending things between us before I found out what had happened, with the abuse from her cousin and the lack of communication between us. But now I feel trapped here. I want to leave for my own wellbeing, but I'd feel awful about leaving her now. I don't know if it's better to just move on or put up with the abuse from her cousin and waiting to see how things turn out.
My friends who don't know my girlfriend almost unanimously agree that something is fishy about all of this, but my girlfriend's friends and family think I'm being selfish for wanting to know what's actually happening.
TL;DR: Girlfriend disappeared, her cousin shouts at me and tells me she got hit by a car, now I'm not happy in this relationship but I'd feel awful for leaving.
Submitted December 02, 2018 at 09:59AM by SubResidual https://ift.tt/2zDAOIb
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