I used yahoo email on my girlfriend's laptop last week and saw emails between her and some old guy. I'm pretty sure she cheated on me with him. I confronted her about it and she confessed. She also showed me text messages beween the two of them which confirms they met up. It was only once and the dude pretty much ghosted her. I do feel hurt about it. We said we'd wait until we got married to do any of that stuff but she went out of her way to do it with some old married guy. She said he's married with two kids and he's a school teacher.Through the messages, I found out that he has cheated on his wife before. Later on, when she was asleep, I couldn't fall asleep knowing what I know now so I went on her phone and re read the messages. I found the guy on facebook and his wife. Should I message the wife and tell her? Would you want to know that way?
Edit: Okay, I think I'm going to tell her. I've sent screenshots of the emails and messages to myself. Do you guys think I should print them out and mail them so I stay anonymous, or just add her on facebook and send the pictures?
Edit 2: I'm scared to now. I seriously feel like shit and I've been looking this guy up all night. I found out more about his wife and she's literally an angel. She's very very beautiful and she's a nurse. Everything I find about them online seems to be like the perfect family. This is messing with my head so much. I just don't get why someone would cheat on their wife. I don't get why my girl would cheat on me, especially with an old man who's already established his life. I don't want to ruin this woman's life but I keep getting stuck on the fact that this guy has done this before. I'm so pissed off that this happened to us. I'm so pissed off at her for bringing this kind of stress into our relationship and for making me feel like this. I seriously can't fall asleep.
TL;DR! Girlfriend cheated on me with a married guy, I'm gonna break up with her after I talk to my mom about it but should I tell the husband's wife? Does she deserve to know?
Submitted December 27, 2018 at 07:19PM by gyu134 http://bit.ly/2CCaQ9P
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