Boyfriend’s (24m) erections are becoming a problem in the relationship

I don’t know if anyone will be able to relate to this, but my boyfriend gets erections that are completely uncalled for. While I understand that it is only normal to get them out of nowhere, it seems as if he’s proud of showing his boner and tries to find ways to get it up.

For example, we were grabbing coffee when he noticed a girl on a date with her boyfriend sitting at a small table. She had huge boobs and they were just out there jiggling when she would laugh. I watched him stare for about a MINUTE (not even joking) until I looked down and saw his erection. I was disgusted. You would think he would be able to see me stare at him for the whole minute he stared at her, but not once did he look down and notice me. Not. Once.

Another example would be at my best friend’s birthday. When her friends brought over her birthday cake, my boyfriend and I were in the back near the doorway and she had her back turned to us. I didn’t notice any weird behavior from my boyfriend until I asked him a question, there it was, a boner. He was still staring too.. At my best friends ass. I told him to stop and how disrespectful it was considering the fact we all grew up together. He said he couldn’t help it, but also complimented how bubbly it looked in her dress. I was completely fed up with this shit and left the party early, later telling my best friend the reason.

I don’t know what the fuck to do. There has been so many other instances that I can’t exactly pin at the top my head. I’m not angry at the fact he is getting boners, sure, notice someone is attractive and that’s just biology. It’s the fact he is going beyond looking, it’s now staring. Staring to the point he gets a full-on boner. I find it disrespectful, not only to me, but to the female he’s staring at as well. How embarrassing is it for me to try to explain to the girl how sorry I am for my boyfriend getting a boner over her? Most girls notice and walk away repulsed. I would too, his behavior is disgusting. I don’t know exactly how to address this to him, he knows it’s a problem but he continues to stare and make women uncomfortable anyway. I’ve asked him why does he feel the need to look at women long enough to get hard and he tells me, “It’s not my fault they’re hot”. Someone please help.

TLDR: Boyfriend makes me, my friends and random strangers uncomfortable by his constant boners that he CHOOSES to get.

Submitted December 02, 2018 at 05:48PM by GI_Hoe https://ift.tt/2AGHvZG