Hi Reddit,
So.... Yeah, my(27F) boyfriend (35M) went out with some of his buddies from work, he told me they were going to go to different bars and I didn't really mind. We're starting off and he hasn't ever given me a reason to not trust him. I fell asleep throughout the time he was out, but I was waking up every other hour just to make sure he was ok and in case he needed me to go pick him up. One of the times I woke up, I asked how he was doing and if he needed me at all, and he said "no, I'm ok" as I was about to start going back to sleep, I checked my socials, one of them being Snapchat. Without thinking I looked at the map and realized his location was no where near where he said they were going to be (which again not a big deal because I understand plans change when you're out with friends). UNTIL, i zoomed in and saw that he was at a strip club. I was like ummmmmm, of course in my head I started making excuses or just different explanations as to why he would be there. I texted him and asked "where are you guys" and he responded with "oh we're still here at this bar, they're so drunk and I just want to go home" I was dumbfounded. I thought maybe he didn't want to talk about it right then and there and maybe he would tell me in person so we could talk about it. Morning came and I asked him about his night, he told me all the places they were at and did not mention the strip club, not even once. Its been about 2 weeks since that happened. It bothers me that he didn't tell me, I understand that guys sometimes want to be guys and they want to go to a strip club with their friends. I don't know if I'm being too lenient? Or if I should confront him?
TL;DR - Boyfriend went to strip club and didn't mention it. Should I ask him about it? Or just let it go already?
Submitted April 04, 2022 at 08:50AM by Specific-Baseball-91 https://ift.tt/d09Nr38
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