I (25F) recently found out my husband (28M) has been messaging other women on dating apps since we’ve been together in 2016.

We got together in 2016 and got married in 2019. I recently found out he’s been using a specific dating app called badoo probably since we’ve been together. I was looking through his emails because I felt that something was up and saw an email from that dating app going back to 2018. I’ve also seen the app on his phone last year (didn’t know what it was then) and saw it recently too. I’m just confused why he would have been downloading and deleting this app for years. I spoke to him and he said he was doing it for an ego boost. Actually the girls he was messaging are living in another country (Ukraine) and we live in Turkey. I also saw he messaged some Ukrainian porn stars asking them if they would be coming to Turkey to meet (obviously he got no reply from them). I’m in shock because he tells me he loves me everyday and proves it with actions. Could this be an addiction for him? Could he have really low self esteem? Is that why he’s doing this? I just know that I can’t stay married to someone if they will continue to do this. What should I do?

TL;DR I don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t think I can deal with this.

Submitted November 03, 2021 at 02:51AM by Capable-Fennel-9780 https://ift.tt/3wdWua3