How to get over being betrayed?

How to get over being betrayed?

So a few months ago, I (18M) found out that my best friend (18M) of 3 years had immediately started sleeping with and dating my ex (18F) of 1 year a few weeks after we broke up (it was messy). He never told me and hid it from me successfully for months, and he knew that I still wasn’t over her at all. This is the first girl i ever loved, and he hid it from me until i put two and two together. When i found out, i confronted him, and he offered a weak apology and ended up blocking me after i told him exactly how it made me feel. I spoke to my ex about it, she apologised multiple times and said she wanted me and not him. I declined the offer, and she said she would never see my best friend again. I just saw them together at a restaurant today, and the pain that never left me has only gotten more intense.

He has been out of mine and my friends lives completely since i found out, but both his and my exes actions still hurt me so much. Does anyone have any tips for getting over this? I just want this pain to stop :’)

TL;DR: Best friend has been sleeping with and dating my ex of a year, didn’t tell me about it at all and I’m still in so much pain now, any tips on getting over it?

Submitted November 02, 2021 at 12:32PM by Flameguy788 https://ift.tt/31rANbg