I've been with bf for almost 3 years now. I'm 24f and he's 30m. His depression has been especially bad recently and he spent around 1 month in bed. He is in the process of completing his bachelor's and unfortunately, this has set him back quite a bit. Two of the courses he is taking are ones I have done in the past during my undergrad, so he wants me to help him out with these. The issue I have is that the "help" he needs is for me to do the assignments for him. Basically, if I don't do his assignments, then he has too much workload right now to be able to complete his degree on time. Not only that, he would lose out on the grant he receives if he drops a course. We were planning on buying a house together soon and of course that is gonna take up his time too. Given all these things, he asked me to do the assignments for him. However, I feel like this is too much to ask from anyone, and it takes a lot of time for me too. In that time, I could be doing other things - focusing on a hobby or making more money. Either way, this just adds to the stress as he doesn't only want me to do the assignments, he wants good grades too (80+). In the past I've done this for him with a few assignments but I feel like it's really a lot to ask from me. What do you guys think? What should I do?
TL;DR: Bf and I have been together almost 3 years, and we're in a serious relationship. He has been going through depression and it got really bad recently. He missed out on 1 month of school work, which is essentially 1/3rd. He wants me to do the assignments for two of his courses so that he can graduate on time and continue receiving the grants. However, I feel like this is too much to ask from anyone, and it takes a lot of time for me too. In that time, I could be doing other things - focusing on a hobby or making more money. Either way, this just adds to the stress as he doesn't only want me to do the assignments, he wants good grades too (80+). In the past I've done this for him with a few assignments but I feel like it's really a lot to ask from me. What do you guys think? What should I do?
Submitted October 31, 2021 at 04:32PM by randomuser110011 https://ift.tt/3CCgc1s
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