So let me just get this straight.. we have a very loving relationship. But i am waking up feeling tiered an cranky almost every day.
I am a very light sleeper.. always have been. We right now live in a one bedroom apartment. A very nice bed and a uncomfortable couch.
He seems to be the opposite of me when it comes to sleeping. He is watching a movie and would just seamlessly fall asleep. I would spend atleast an hour trying to finally get some rest. The problem is, he is a very animated sleeper, when he turns sides, he does it in some kind of hopping around way. Then im awake. Or regularly an accidental elbow to the face or knee on the bum. I wake up every hour basically because of this. Ive literally woken up and cried because of my tiered frustration. I would go to the couch, even though its not comfortable. He would also ask me the next day why that is, and if im mad at him. Again i have to explain thats not the case.
So i sleep with earplugs and eye covers.. but his movements wake me up all the time. After that, depending on my tiredness i spend another hour getting to sleep again. Sometimes when its 3/4am i just stay awake.
I am so tiered and not properly rested for 2 years now. I have brought it up that i cant sleep. He thinks im just a drama queen. I also have been looking into apparentments in our price range for a two bedroom, so i mentiond so we can both have our "own" sleeping rooms. He took it very bad, and said he doesnt wane be married to a roomate. I guess it's how he was brought up, that married ppl always sleep in the same bed. I have explained that we can still cuddle, watch movies etc, etc... But when real rest time comes around i need my own bed.
TL;DR He sees this as an insult to our marriage. But im so tiered i just need some proper sleep!
Submitted April 08, 2021 at 04:19PM by reneefromplopsville https://ift.tt/3uBHEYY
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