Posted originally on r advice thought I could get some input on here too. I'm sorry if it doesn't fit.
Hello, cut straight to the point I suppose.
I am 19 yo dude who has never found a gal who would like him enough. I completely understand their line of reasoning as I am not the most entertaining/good looking guy out there. I respect everyones decisions, but for some reason I still have similar line of reasoning as some of the infamous incels.
For example, when I was friends with a gal (this happened multiple times with different girls) I would be next to obsessed with them. I wouldn't let it show, I didn't spam them, ask them creepy questions or anything along the lines of r niceguys. But on the inside it was tearing me apart. Whenever I saw them being online, talking to someone else (this was just online, with people I know irl I don't really experience this) I immediately hated myself. Went over all of the conversations we would have and tried to figure out what I did wrong, what I could do differently but never really came up with an answer. This doesn't really happen when I am talking with guys, so it has to do something with romantic relationships and so and so. This was happening with people I didn't even know that well, I would just talk with them for hour or so and be attached just like that. Another example is whenever I see a post on anywhere around reddit regarding relationship, be it posts similar to "look what my gf made" or so on, I get jealous for actually no reason. It's absolutely destroying me.
I fully recognise that what I am doing is completely shitty, I need all the help I can get.
TL;DR: I get very self conscious about girls not liking me or not being honest with me about it.
Submitted November 03, 2019 at 02:42PM by Boring_Capybara https://ift.tt/33fUFtR
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