My (26F) BF(29M) bought a car in May, his parents are the one using it, and I am starting to resent him for all the driving and his lack of initiative

Tldr: My (26F) BF(29M) bought a car in May, his parents are the one using it because their car is broken and they haven't fixed it since my bf bought his car and I am starting to resent him for all the driving, am I being selfish here?

Hi, I am not quite sure if I am being selfish or not, but my Bf and I have been together for 8 years and since day 1 I was the one doing all the driving.

He lives with his parents and so do I. We are like 20 minutes apart from each other. When we started dating I didn't think much of it, but now that I am older and he got a new car that doesn't even use to go out, I am getting tired of it...

His parents do own a car, but it's broken, since like May, - a car he wasn't able to borrow or use without his parents going bunkers, so he never drove that car-.

I was the one who pushed my bf to learn to drive, and the one who supported him with MY car through his anxiety while learning to drive, because his parents couldn't.

However, since he bought his car, we have only gone out in his car once, in all these months... His parents are pretty much using his car 99,99% of the time because their car is broken (and they have the money to fix it, but yet they won't).... My bf is the one who is going to fix it, supposedly in December...

At first, I thought that well, their car was broken and their parents are using my Bf's car to work & drive my Bf, his brothers and grandmother around town, and I that was being selfish and inmature for wanting my bf to pick me up for once... But, months have passed and I am starting to resent him.

I know he has a bit of anxiety while driving alone, but I don't see him trying neither, so.... I think I am getting tired of this...

When we go out, I am always the one driving him back to his home... Now that I think of it, it takes me like 40 minutes total of driving him back home and me getting back to my home.

These last weeks, I have asked him to at least travel near my home, so his parents are driving him to the spot.... But I don't know, I feel something is off, I wouldn't like to ask my mom to drive me everywhere, even more so if I own the car...

And to be honest, I don't like his parents and I know they don't like me either, my bf have had really ugly fights with them, they never supported him to learn to drive, but yet here they are, using my Bf's car 99,99% of the time, something he wasn't able to do with his parents car...

And yesterday my bf told me something that struck me...he told me a patient contacted him to set an appointment with him at 8 am, but that he wouldn't be able to arrive that early because his dad would be busy fixing the house's roof, so he told the patient to instead wait until 10 am....

And I thought.... "you own a car, You can just take it to go work as early as you want to", however I didn't say a word, I just told him "oh"

These things, Sometimes, make me feel like I am dating a teenager... Am I in the wrong here? Should I tell him something?

Submitted November 24, 2019 at 12:12PM by bfboughtcar https://ift.tt/2Oj4jHi