My best friend and I decided to move in together about a few months ago, let's say he's Kyle. He has been seeing this one chick for about 3 years, we'll call her Amy. I'm single. We split a 2 bedroom apartment that has one bathroom.
I've known Amy for the entire time they've been dating. For the most part, she is a nice girl. Kyle loves her and would likely be lost without her. He went through a depressive episode that ended shortly before the two of them started dating. I would only see her here and there until Kyle and I moved in together, I now see her much more frequently.
Now, I don't know if this is all in my head, but a bunch of little things have happened that made me think that Amy is...coming on to me. I'll list through them here, and I'm praying that it's just in my head.
i. She frequently compliments my appearance. I actually have been working out much more recently, so my physique has improved, but it seems to be a bit too frequent. Kyle is rarely within earshot when she does this btw.
ii. She walked into the bathroom while I was naked (about to go into the shower). I think this may have been an accident, stupidly forgot to lock the door, and they came home after I had already gone into the bathroom.
iii. I caught her peeking once. I had gone into my room to change, and stupidly left my door open out of habit. There's a mirror on the wall, and I caught her looking at my reflection while I was changing.
iv. She brought up to me (not to Kyle) how she had never seen a white dick and would really want to but can't because she is with Kyle (Kyle is Chinese, I'm white). She was really drunk when she said this. This was before she walked in on me in the bathroom.
v. I catch her looking at me way too often.
vi. I have a habit of working out without a shirt on. When I know she (or anyone else aside from Kyle for that matter) is going to be at our place, I obviously don't do this. Well she came over once mid work out and was staring at me the entire time until I finished. Literally staring. When I asked her, she said she was just curious about what my work out routine is because it seems to be working well for me and she may copy some of it.
vii. This past summer, she suggested the three of us go to a local nude beach.
That's what I can think of off the top of my head. There may be some other small things I missed out on.
So, am I wrong to be thinking she is coming on to me? If not, how do I go about telling Kyle? I'm worried it would shatter his self confidence and may bring about his depression again, he's already had a really rough last few months (his mother was diagnosed with a serious illness, and he got laid off from his job). I'm worried that this may set him over the edge and potentially retrigger his depression.
As far as he's concerned, everything is great between the two of them and he seems genuinely very happy with their relationship.
TLDR: unsure if my best friend's gf is coming on to me, and if so, how to tell him without triggering a depression.
Submitted November 21, 2019 at 10:50AM by Sgahjshsjjahshsjw https://ift.tt/332KXdu
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