Living right next to an Air Force base my whole life I (F17) always heard the joke that Air men propose on the third date.... Which I thought was just a joke but oh my god I was wrong.....
Last month I met an air force guy (M19) online, despite living in the same town I didn't think we'd even see each other but boy was I wrong, we've been sleeping with each other for the last month, I've definitely seen a few red flags, like he hardly ever uses condoms (he pulls out but I don't think that's a good form of birth control)
Last night we were talking, he made it fairly clear that he wants me pregnant. I asked him "what if I get pregnant" and he responded with "Not if... when you do get pregnant." I explained to him that my mom would kill me if I were to get pregnant seeing as I'm only 17. Then he suggests that when I do get pregnant, I can move in with him... and get married
Personally I think he just wants off base, he's currently an e2 which means he has to live in the dorms on base until next year (unless he's married before then) So basically I'm his ticket to living off base.
Despite some of the concerns I have, I still really do like him, we're definitely moving way too fast but I've heard that's normal for service members. I hope with time that we can get to know each other better and maybe in the future have kids or whatever.
TL;DR I (F17) have been seeing an airman (M19) for a month, I told him my concerns about getting pregnant he kinda brushed it off he suggested marriage and moving in together.
Submitted November 14, 2019 at 07:24PM by kylieb1313 https://ift.tt/32KH24Q
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