How do I (17f) tell my mother (42f) she is too loud when she is having sex?

Tl;dr Basically what says in the title.

I should start by saying my father died 3 years ago in a car accident . It was a very hard time for me and her . She hasn't dated anyone until 4 months ago when she met Daniel . He is 39 , divorced and has son which , to my surprise , is one of colleague from high school .

Since the first day I met Daniel I liked him . He is kind , smart and very funny . He is making me rember my father . To be honest I think this is the reason my mother is dating him .

Everything was perfect until they started to have sex. They usually do it at night when they think I am sleeping. I don't know if they realise , but the walls are not soundproof.

Alright , I can handle 15-20 minutes but they do it for at least an hour and sometimes they do it multiple times at night and they try to be silent but I still hear the bed moving and my mother moans . I know my mother hasn't had sex in 3 years but this is ridiculous. They sometimes sleep at his place and I his son told me this is happening there too.

How do I tell her to be more quiet because this is ruining my sleep.

Submitted November 03, 2019 at 02:13PM by throwRAtooloumother https://ift.tt/2WItrJR