Not sure if this counts as relationship since I'm single but I need advice. I've been told on multiple occasions by multiple people that I look bisexual. I've had friends become shocked to find out that I'm actually straight. There was even an argument within my family because my aunt told my grandma that she thought I was a lesbian and my grandma cut all contact with her. Now I'm not offended by this assumption by people, but at the same time I don't want to give people the wrong impression. I asked a lot of people what about me makes them think I'm not straight, jokingly they say it's my shoulder-length haircut, but the serious answer is usually that I'm more masculine than most girls. I dress feminine, but I have a deeper voice, I have some guy-centered hobbies (e.g. video games), and I guess a lot of the things I do aren't very feminine (I don't know how to use make up, burp loud, etc.)
What I want to know is if this will affect men's attraction to me. I know I shouldn't be concerned about how the other gender views me, but everyone in my life is starting to get married or have been in seriously long-term relationships, and I still haven't found anyone. I haven't really made an effort to find anyone yet, but when I do, I want to know if I'm going to be working at a disadvantage here. I know a lot of feminine straight guys have a harder time getting into relationships, and I'm wondering if it's the same for me. I hope I don't come off as ignorant or insulting to anyone with this post; I know this is sort of a touchy topic.
TL;DR Will being a masculine girl make it harder for me to find dates?
Submitted November 01, 2019 at 08:00AM by 69hahanicegotem https://ift.tt/2qe4cTu
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