This might be long and all over the place but I really just need someplace to put my thoughts that is not my head. I don't have anyone else to talk to about it.
She and I have been dating for a few years and very recently just moved in together. Since then, there has been zero physical affection initiated by her. Not even brief make out periods. In our long term relationship, we've had 2 big dry spells, each lasting several months. By dry, I mean no more than a little kissing goodnight and goodbye. We did long distance for a while and things seem to get a lot better in the sex department. What's that saying? "Distance makes the vagina grow fonder"?
Anyway, since we've ended the long distance chapter in our lives, she has barely touched me. She now even seems like she doesn't want me to see her naked and thinks it's strange/laughable that i would even want to. This makes me feel unwanted, disgusting, frustrated, and confused.
Before we moved in, i turned down a big career and financial opportunity to be with her and now i'm wondering if she even wanted me here at all. Maybe I should have just taken that job and moved on with someone else?
During the dry spells in the past I've asked her if there is a problem or if she would like me to change up the way I perform any sexual acts and I always get a short response. In those instances, it seems she believes it's taboo to talk about sex and insists that nothing is wrong.
I'm not the only sexual partner she's had and stories about her from her or her friends suggest that she had passionate sex with other partners. Maybe it's just me? Maybe she's cheating on me now? I honestly have no idea how to approach this again. I would welcome any advice or comments
TLDR; I turned down an big job to move in with my girlfriend who doesn't seem to want me as anything other that a roommate.
Submitted August 24, 2019 at 11:21AM by RegularHumanIPromise https://ift.tt/2L53YVx
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