My friend confronted me out of nowhere about her dislike for my boyfriend

I’m super upset and feel betrayed. I (F22) just graduated college, and have been in my first great relationship with an amazing guy for a year now. I’m very happy. My friend (F22), and former roommate, is in a long distance relationship, where they don’t always get to talk very often. Our other two close friends are also in happy relationships. Ever since we’ve graduated (only just over a month ago) we’ve all been busy with our lives and haven’t seen each other much, aside from this friend and another who live together.

I am very happy with my boyfriend, and it’s not a secret, but I still make an effort to talk to my friends about how their lives are going. Last week I visited my two friends to see them and their new apartment.

So today I sent my friends a picture of a present I’m working on for my bf in our Snapchat group. This friend responded super rudely saying that it’s annoying how I bring him into every conversation (which I really don’t think I do), and went on to say that she doesn’t like him. Now, I try to be aware and not blinded by love. He really is a great guy, he treats me well, and I’m very happy with him. This statement took me aback.

My other close friends texted me separately to say they didn’t agree at all with what she said and were upset that she did that. Now I’m semi panicking that somehow my boyfriend isn’t as great as I think he is, even though there’s no real reason for me to think that. I’m fairly certain this is stemming from her jealousy that I have a boyfriend I can regularly see and talk to.

So, what do i do? Im tempted to just cut her off, that was totally uncalled for, but at the same time I feel like I should at least try to talk to her.

TLDR: my friend randomly told me she’s annoyed about how often I talk about my boyfriend and doesn’t like him. Our other friends disagree and are mad that she said that. I feel betrayed and upset. How do I go about resolving this? Or do I just cut her off?

Submitted June 20, 2019 at 10:04AM by clutteredmentality http://bit.ly/2IWjFNZ