Basically I have been friends with a guy since middle school, and he’s my closest friend. He has been dating on and off with another one of our friends. Basically they date for a months/a year then breakup for a few weeks/months and get back together. It’s like a cycle. The last time they broke up “for good” my best friend tried seeing other people and found this really nice girl he started dating. I really thought they were a good match and she treated him really well. 2 months into his relationship with her, he calls me to tell me they broke up and he is back with his ex (the one that’s been on and off with him). I asked what happened and he said that him and his ex went to get drinks to catch up and went to her apartment together. Things started getting a little touchy and they were both in bed naked. His ex told him if he wanted her he had to call his gf and break up then and there. So my friend called his gf and broke up over the phone with her so he could have sex and be with his ex. He didn’t tell her why he broke up with her and just said it was because he wasn’t ready for a relationship. I found this absolutely awful and felt really bad for his girlfriend as she was great and such a genuinely sweet person. 2 days later his ex breaks up with him and says she’s not ready for another relationship with him. So then, he calls up his gf of 2 months and tells her he was sorry and confused and wants to get back together. She agreed and they’re back together now but I feel awful knowing he cheated and is still dating her and she has no idea. He’s my closest friend and I don’t want to lose our friendship but I feel guilty whenever we hangout together because she seems to genuinely really like him. How do I approach this? Is there any way of telling her without losing him as a friend?
TLDR; he cheated on his girlfriend and now I’m unsure how to approach this without losing our friendship. We’re really close longtime best friends.
Submitted June 22, 2019 at 12:20PM by qwsazxsa http://bit.ly/2KuUipz
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