My (24F) husband (24M) of less than a month threw something out the window for no reason, to hit a guy below? WTF?
(Recently married, together for around two and a half years total)
I took a shower this morning and when I went into our room after, it was just in time to see my husband fling an object out the open window, then there was a scream down below. We live on the 6th floor of a building. I saw a guy crouched on the sidewalk on the other side of the street holding his arm. I do not know what my husband threw. He refuses to tell me and I haven't noticed anything missing.
So, what the fuck? I immediately demanded to know what I'd just seen and why he did it. He insisted I was mistaken, that the guy had just tripped by himself at the same time my husband was opening the window. No, I know what I saw - the window was already open (screen included, we never put the screens up) and I caught him right in the moment he had his arm way back. Followed by an obvious, intentional, throwing motion.
I told him to stop lying and explain. That started a half hour back and forth argument of him continuing to try to convince me I'd seen it wrong.
He eventually admitted there had been something in his hand but that it was just garbage and he was dropping it to the curb below. More bullshit. But this is the story he's sticking to. He won't tell me what the thing was. He will not say why he threw it, as that would involve telling the truth.
He has now avoided me all day. He had work, but then tonight he's been at the bar with some friends. I sent two texts pushing the issue that he didn't answer, the third text today was me asking where he was once it was 9pm, and he followed his response about the bar with a link to a facebook post he knew I'd be interested in, and also asking if I need any groceries as he's going to do a run before he comes home. To me this all feels like he's trying to act as if it never happened, get me to drop the subject for something else.
I assume he'll be home any time now and I don't know what to do. He seems determined not to talk about it. It's making me feel like I'll be crazy if I keep bringing it up. But what the hell? Don't I have a reasonable right to know why my husband hurled something out a window at a random stranger??
What should I do here?
TL;DR: I walked in on my husband throwing something out our bedroom window and hitting a dude across the street. He won't explain anything.
Submitted June 24, 2019 at 07:05PM by DeepWatercress http://bit.ly/2Nez1Tg
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