My (22M) best friend from high school (22F) wants me to move in and be her roommate. Only thing is that she got super hot in college.

Throwaway because she knows my other username.

This girl and I have always been very good friends. Nothing more. I've never gotten that impression that there was anything else going on really. In high school, we played the same sports and were in all the same classes and always made each other laugh and helped each other with homework - you get the idea. We dated other people but we still hung out when we could. She was cute and athletic and well liked and so was I (at least I like to imagine lol). We even went to prom one year together (my school you could go any year) because neither of us could find a date. Again just as friends but it wasn't awkward or anything, really a great time.

We both moved away for college and we both went to go play D1 sports (her track, me soccer). We would still visit when we both were home or if we got a free weekend we might go see each other for a football tailgate. I even went on a Christmas break vacation for a couple of days with her and her family and a couple of other friends. What I started to notice around graduation from college was that this:

This girl is crazy hot.

Not like kinda cute, not like she's just pretty good looking, I'm talking jaw-droppingly gorgeous. 10/10 smokeshow, swimsuit model hot.

I'm not sure if she was always this hot and I just missed it, but I'm sure the sports helped. I was floored.

We got together last week after we both moved home after college before starting our lives, and we both realized we're both moving to the same major US city in August (her for grad school, me for a job) and she asked if I wanted to live together. I said yes because who wouldn't want to live with a friend who you already know will be a good roommate (place was always clean when I visited and she's very respectful of others) and save some money.

The more I've thought about it, the more I'm not sure how I should feel though. I think this girl is so hot. So so hot. I understand that nothing will happen between us and I've made my peace with it, but is it still a good idea? Not too worried about her being a bad roommate, but if every time I see her I think about how attractive she is, is that...good for me? Is it allowed? I want to live with my friend but if I'm legit always checking her out I'm not sure if it's a good idea.

We're both single and have been for about six months fwiw.

TL;DR: my high school friend who got insanely hot in college asked me to move in with her and I said yes, but I'm not sure if I should do it or what to think.

Submitted June 04, 2019 at 01:56PM by jorfworf http://bit.ly/2QKWr0I