EDIT: in the title i accidentally put my best friend as a male, she is female
first things first i’ll hit you with a short back story. me, my boyfriend (who i’ll refer to as BF), my best friend (BFF) and her boyfriend (JerkFace) have all been hanging out at least 3 times a week over the past 8 months. we had our own little group, you could say. about a month ago BFF threw a party. 1 AM comes along, BF goes to work and BFF goes to sleep. there’s about 8 people left who decide to hit the road to the next party. in the back seat (where three of us are sitting, JF in the middle with his arms around me and the other boy) JerkFace grabs my boob. over my shirt. i hit his hand and move away from him. he does it again. under my shirt, over my bra. i make a bigger deal about it because A) it felt like more of a violation and B) i had already told him no. so me and my other best friend (who i’ll call Ken) get really upset and she drives us home after the second party. we are both upset and talk about it all night. in the morning i tell BF in person and then text BFF. she doesn’t seem like she believes me. which hurts and doesn’t make sense, what would i get out of lying? i have a history of being honest and i didn’t tell anyone besides the few featured in this post because it was embarrassing for everyone involved. BFF goes out of her way to make posts on every social media platform about how much she loves JerkFace and how great he is. JerkFace even texts BF trying to convince him i am lying because BF wants nothing to do with him anymore. i haven’t talked to her since. very hurt that she didn’t care. the more time that passes i am getting increasingly upset about it, especially because Ken has been ditching me to hangout with BFF ever since. this hurts my feelings because BFF hasn’t contacted me, presumably because she thinks i’m lying and Ken doesn’t seem upset anymore that BFF didn’t believe me or care. this sucks because if i hadn’t told BFF, we would all still be hanging out together. it’s like i’m being punished for something that happened to me. i’d love some advice on what to do, i am scared to talk to my other friends about it because they might also think i’m lying or spread it. i really want to keep both friendships but i’m hurt. i’m worried that if i message either of them about it, it will come off as dramatic; however, i have been close friends with Ken and BFF for 5 years so i don’t want to ignore it
TL;DR! My best friends boyfriend grabbed my boob twice, i told her about it and now we haven’t talked or hung out. looking for advice
Submitted June 23, 2019 at 06:17PM by lennyon http://bit.ly/2xbVTYC
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