My boyfriend and I live with Nick, one of my bf's oldest friends. Nick has a girlfriend, Anne. She and Nick have been on and off for years, so my boyfriend and her were friends long before I even knew him.
I've heard my boyfriend bring Anne up before in conversation when the context was the taboo nature of sleeping with friends' girlfriends or exes. I've also noticed that he brings her up in conversations out of the blue, like "anne would love this" and "this humor is so anne" and then goes to explain her sense of humor in great detail even though the topic is completely unrelated to our conversation. He doesn't talk this way about other friends, especially girls.
Even though this has caused me pangs of jealousy at times, it never actually crossed the line, so I always respected their space when they talked, I repressed my feelings and never brought it up to him.
So last night Anne and some other friends came over. Towards the end of the night, my bf and I sat on a couch that is kind of separated from the rest of the group, and were having our own private talk. Of course, Anne comes over, sits down and proceeds to dominate the conversation and talking pretty much only with my boyfriend. At one point, she started telling him of something nick does that apparently she finds annoying, which is get super close to her face and make cute, whispery animal noises right in her ear, which she then demonstrated on my boyfriend. He then asked why she doesn't just respond with something of her own, scooted closer to her, and proceeded to run his fingers down her upper inner thigh like a playful scratch, while saying "like this".
So that pissed me the fuck off. But I didn't say anything, and I've been tense ever since then. I need to know if I'm way overreacting or if their little demonstration of love play on each other was actually crossing a line. I've been feeling weird about Anne for a while, and this was like the straw that broke the camel's back for me. What freaks me out also is the fact that they did it right on front of me, apparently not giving a fuck. Is this normal? Should I bring it up to him?
TL;DR - boyfriend playfully caressed another girl's thigh, am I overreacting by feeling jealous?
Submitted June 19, 2019 at 06:41PM by vahfahncoolo http://bit.ly/2XmGBin
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