My husband [28m] is being rather insistent on buying me [24f] a new car, but I feel really uncomfortable about it.

My husband of 9 months recently received a significant bonus at work. He immediately told me he is going to use it to buy me a new car and asked me to think of what I want and let him know.

I really, really appreciate that. But the money he made is his. He works really hard for it and I don't want him spending so much on me. I have a car. It's a little older but it gets me where I need.

I told my husband not to spend his money on me and he just brushed it off to the side and told me it was a chance to get me something better and we should take it.

My sweetheart of a husband is quite insistent on it, but I just don't feel comfortable taking a gift that costs so much.

As I said, I really appreciate that he would offer, I just feel guilty thinking of him dropping his whole bonus on me.

Is there a way to tell him to please not buy me a car, without seeming ungrateful? He wants to go to a lot tomorrow....

TL;DR Husband wants to buy me a car. I'm really uncomfortable that he would spend so much on me. Can I ask him not to without seeming ungrateful?

Submitted March 28, 2019 at 06:07PM by FancyInside https://ift.tt/2CEeLm7