I love my boyfriend so much and now it’s gotten to a point where I can’t talk about any of my concerns with him. If I say ONE THING that he doesn’t like, I get blocked for at least 24 hours across all our social medias, he refuses to pick up the phone etc. And then I am expected to apologize, which I normally do, because I don’t want to escalate things.
The most recent reason for being blocked was when I organized to go to town for a pint and he woke up late, giving us only an hour together. I told him there’s no point us going if we’re only going to be out for an hour and that was it. Blocked.
There’s no way to reason with him when he does this. He makes it out to be MY fault, even when it’s him who’s making it 10x worse.
I literally don’t know what to do anymore and he’s starting to become unapproachable. This happens at least once a week now and it’s always over something stupid.
The biggest kick in the teeth is that if HE has any problems, he expects me to listen and then sort it out with him. And I do. This is just becoming childish now and there’s no way I can get through to him.
Any advice would be super helpful, and I’m not looking to break up as I believe this can be fixed.
tl;dr My bf doesn't know how to communicate when he's upset--how can we fix this?
Submitted March 02, 2019 at 10:17PM by cheddarthecorgster https://ift.tt/2Tanyqm
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