A lot of the games my wife and I play are ones which don't have a good communication system in-game. So 3rd party apps, aka discord, is used for group voice chat and so on.
Being a female gamer by default gets attention from males, but she's also a very attractive woman. Her discord photo is one of her (as of 3 to 4 weeks ago) and has people she plays with every day starting to comment on her appearance. They make sexual jokes back and forth, and I do believe them to be jokes. More recently she told me of someone who keeps messaging her non-stop.
I looked into it, and the guy is 110% flirting with her and she doesn't try to stop it. He's willing to drive 90 minutes to meet her (she never said her location within our state, so he doesn't know it's only 90 minutes). She has very neutral responses and doesn't flirt back, but why would she not stop it entirely? It has been over 7 days of this guy flirting with her and she keeps letting him act that way.
I also noticed 2 other people she's sent pictures of herself to, albeit none are sexual. It happened because the guys say something along the lines of "wow, you're so beautiful, I'd date you if I could. Do you have any other pictures?". It angers me she complies and doesn't tell them to fuck off. If some random women on the internet were doing that to me I'd tell them to fuck off.
Another issue comes up when she gets asked personal info. Others ask her if she has a boyfriend or in a relationship. She doesn't ever at first say she is married, and but what she does say is "I am taken" and doesn't give the full truth of being married. What's the point of not saying you're married? You play the game with these people almost daily, if they were actually friends they wouldn't care.
I don't agree with how she handles it. It's like she's luring them on for no point at all. I've told her once or twice in the past she's too friendly with random people and will give the wrong message. I don't think she cares. I am 99.5% sure if the tables were turned she'd accuse me of cheating although the same actions as she's doing now. I get cross looks if I even acknowledge the existence of another female when we're together.
If telling her in the past she's too open doesn't work, I need other options.
TL;DR my wife doesn't shut down the advances of horny men online, but doesn't provoke them either.
Submitted December 02, 2018 at 04:05PM by throwaway7854068574 https://ift.tt/2ri9XwT
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