Hey Reddit, im having a bit of an issue and could ramble on about this but I'm trying to keep this short. Sorry if my English is not 100% correct because I'm from norway so excuse some mistakes ;)
Me (27F) and my boyfriend (25M) of >2 years are in a very good relationship I would say. We love each other very much and we express this in a lot of ways. But I have one issue that is going on for a long time. We never had sex. I have had sex with my previous partner, but he has never. He is afraid of it, thinks he will make me pregnant, even though I have been taking birthcontroll pills for 5 years. When I want to talk to him about it he just shuts down and does not want to talk. Gets sorta angry and says it will come eventually, but not now. Has no reason for that he says, just does not want to get me pregnant. For the record, I also don't want to get pregnant rn. I asked him if he has been abused by someone or something, but it is not that.
He does like handjobs etc though. But not like, real sex. But I miss it in the relationship. I am not sure if this is "problematic"..
What do u guys think I should do? I am a bit worried and slightly dissapointed in him bc he does not want to work on it.
TL;DR boyfriend is "afraid" of sex bc he does not want to get me pregnant he says. Does not want to talk about it but I feel kinda bad about it. What should I do?
Submitted December 27, 2018 at 09:58AM by throwawaythisfknmess http://bit.ly/2Ailpxv
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