UPDATE: My (23M) coworker (21M) is a really great guy. How do I stop jealousy from ruining our friendship?

Update to this post.

In my last post I basically said that I'm jealous my coworker gets flirted with a lot, and I ended up turning down an invite to hang out with him because of my insecurities.

Well, I decided to ask him yesterday if I could take him up on that offer of watching movies like he previously mentioned. He smiled really big and genuine and said he'd love it. Why not tonight?

I couldn't believe he actually said yes, and even wanted to do it THAT NIGHT. No excuses, no pushing it back for weeks. I was fucking ecstatic.

We couldn't decide on a film, so we started talking about TV shows, and decided to just watch Breaking Bad, since we'd both watched it and enjoyed it before.

Tbh we talked through most of it, but it felt amazing to just be able to let go and be comfortable around him outside of work.

Thanks to everyone who talked to me and helped me!

TLDR; I decided to ask my coworker to hang out and it was great. Hopeful for the future

Submitted November 04, 2021 at 11:11PM by lapras_49 https://ift.tt/3wiqnpz