i (F22)live with my boyfriend of three years (M24) since one and a half year ago. Due to his company, we moved into this big apartment. I am in medical school and i can't keep the house clean the way i want it to be. I feel overwhelmed constantly with the amout of the housework. There's always laundry to do, dishes to wash, trash to bring away and dust everywhere. I have to study a lot and my boyfriend doesn't care about the household either. He is not tidy at all, does not shower much untill i remind him all the time for exmaple He changes his tshirt, and just leave it in the laundry basket. I went to the bathroom and it smelled so much like sweat i told him to put his clothes in the washing machine and wash it. I come back home from school to see there are some pieces of clothes in the washing machine, but not washed at all. I asked him why he didnt wash it and he said the washing machine wasn't full???? And there was a whole full laundry to do!! And when i mention to help me clean the house, he acts as if im the crazy one here. i can't keep up with the housework and my school. He doeesnt talk to me much either, wearing headphones in the house all the time. I constantly feel ignored and unloved. This situation is draining me out, mentally and physically. I feel like this relationship is not working for me anymore, i constantly feel like a mom, always looking to take care of him and I'm forgetting to take care of myself. My confidence has been so low since months. Due to the lease, i have to stay here untill march/april. I want to break up but I'm afraid it gets weird in the house between us two. I wanna know how i can keep sane and maintain a tidy house till then and don't let this situation affect my mental health untill i move out. And if you guys think it's a good idea to wait till i move out and then break up? Or break up right now? I have been in this relationship for too long it just feels so hard to break up.
TL;DR: im overwhelmed with the housework, drained and wanna move out.
Submitted November 06, 2021 at 11:43AM by Puzzleheaded-Ease555 https://ift.tt/3ERiLxv
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