Okay so I (22f) have been dating a guy(23) for 2 months. I really like the guy. He is very sweet and funny. We live in the same apartment complex( he moved in 3 months ago) and have a lot of the same hobbies.
We met because his balcony connects with mine and he liked my gardens. He wanted me to help him set up one too.
It isn't really strange for someone to not own a vehicle here because everything is in walking distance. I didn't think much of him not having a license so if we go somewhere that isn't easily walked to I normally drive.
Well we were having sex and immediately after his orgasm he started seizing. I'm an RN so I immediately jumped into "nurse mode".
It wasn't a bad seizure but I didn't know he had epilepsy. He'd never mentioned it. Once he was coherent again I asked him to see a doctor because he'd had a seizure. He just looked embarrassed and said he is already on seizure meds.
Now I'm kind of upset that he didn't tell me he has epilepsy. I wouldn't have rejected him over it but it would have been relevant information for me to have. I was definitely not expecting it.
Normally I would agree that medical information is no one else's business but in this particular case, he knew he might have a seizure after sex and said it has happened before. I feel like that is particularly relevant information for me to have. I could have been prepared and not jumping from having sex to making sure my bf doesn't die without any prior notice.
I'm not really sure how to have this conversation or if I should just let it go.
He is asleep right now so I'm trying to figure out what I should do/say.
Tdlr- my bf knew he might have a seizure after sex and did not tell me. We had sex, he had a seizure that I wasn't prepared for, now I am upset that he didn't say anything to me beforehand.
Submitted November 06, 2021 at 09:19AM by SqueekersMcSqueek https://ift.tt/3qfDGGq
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