I (27f) am 3 months pregnant to 29m. We've been together 9 years and have lived together almost as long. I've been wanting to start our family since I was 23 but he just was kind of off put by the whole thing because we never really had any money. He also didn't propose until last fall.
Now fast forward to present day we are both in stable higher, not rich by any means but we can handle ourselves jobs. I haven't been on any kind of contraceptives for a year, which he was aware. We just weren't preventing anymore. And I found out in September I was pregnant.
Now he acts like this is going to stop him from doing anything or going anywhere in life. He's been chatting with other women on Snapchat, Omegle, and Instagram. He's also been trying to do drugs a lot. He sneaks around, lies, and hides his location from me. Now I don't necessarily believe he is physically cheating on me, this is still a huge breach of trust. I don't know if I want this kind of toxic behavior around my child and it's causing me heartache and stress.
I don't want to leave but I'm almost not really seeing any other options. I've tried telling him how I feel but he just says I'm controlling him and "not letting him be himself". Is there anyone out there who can give me any kind of advice? If I stay what can I do to make this work?
Tldr; pregnant but long term boyfriend, now fiance isn't being entirely faithful. What kind of advice can I get to stop this behavior?
Submitted November 01, 2019 at 09:53PM by Fourdollarmargarita https://ift.tt/33cNsKY
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