I [24M] have been dating my fiance for a little bit over a year and a half and we plan on getting married late 2020. 4 months ago I was deployed overseas and before that this particular issue never arose. It seems like everytime she goes out with her friends she ends up getting extremely drunk and drives herself home, I have brought this up to her after everytime and she has always said she understands about the drinking and driving and it won't happen again. Because of her work schedule this is only the 3rd time that I can think of her doing this after I've asked her not too. Tonight I knew she was going out and when she got home she called me, drunker then I've ever heard her before and told me she drove home again. She also said she took shrooms early in the night, I'm not happy about that but I'm not sure how I should be upset with her for that. In the time I've known her she has never used drugs yet I know shes done them in the past with her group of friends that she still hangs out with. Honestly I dont really know what to do, I've told her some of the things she does bug me and she has promised not to do them again but a lot of the stuff I feel is unreasonable of me to ask and would end up making her have to leave her group of friends which isnt fair of me to ask
TLDR: Fiance continues to drive home despite me asking her not to. She also puts herself in situations that make me uncomfortable while drinking and I'm not really sure what to do anymore
Submitted November 02, 2019 at 05:14AM by 11WuTang https://ift.tt/2oGuRbp
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