My boyfriend (29M) is from overseas and has really been missing his friends from the UK. After a long night of drinking a few weeks ago, he told me that his female friend from the UK was visiting. He told me she'd probably stay in his bed with him for a few nights, as he's just moved into a new place and doesn't have a spare bed. He also told me that she was in a committed relationship back home, so I didn't need to worry about anything happening between the two of them. I made it clear that I was uncomfortable with the idea. A couple of days later, I asked him if he'd ever had sex with the friend. He said he had, but they'd never dated. I again emphasised how unhappy i would be about her sharing a room with him, and thought that the conversation was finished.
I've been away all weekend (he picked her up Saturday night) and on Monday night I met them both for a drink. After we got back to his, it was clear that she has been sleeping in his bed. He confirmed that she had, but claimed nothing physical happened.
I am so disappointed. I was too upset to talk things out last night, and I'm no clearer today about whether it's worth trying to salvage this relationship. He has told me that he will do whatever it takes to make things right with me, but I don't know if I can trust him any more. Does he deserve another chance?
Tl;Dr - Bf let a girl he used to sleep with share his bed, knowing I was not okay with it
Submitted November 04, 2019 at 09:47PM by ichlassdiesauraus https://ift.tt/2PMliCJ
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