So let me start something off because otherwise everyone is going to flip. Nothing that we do is without my whole and full consent. My husband has a few unusual kinks that he brought up when he felt comfortable after we'd been dating for a few years.
He never pressured me into it and I had to stress that I was okay with it before he'd explore it with me.
He likes women drunk (before you all grab torches and pitchforks, again I need to stress, never without my explicit consent and he's never pressured me once)
So obviously he loves it when I go out with the girls and get hammered or when I have happy hours at work etc. And I like it because it's fun and I never have to worry about my partner getting annoyed if I go out with my friends.
So here's the problem:
I got nice and tipsy one evening a few days ago with my friends and we were all talking about our lives, the conversation turned towards our partners and I made an offhand joke about him being happy that I'm coming home night and drunk. One of my friends (let's call her A) pressed for more information since it was an unusual comment. I answered why and moved on with the night.
The next day I found out that she's been telling my friends some awful things about him, from a friend who wasn't there (She called me obviously concerned). He found out from A's husband and he is pretty unhappy with me for sharing this information and he's been pretty withdrawn over the last few days, I was telling him it's not a big deal and trying to snap him out of this funk, but he seems to think it's a major problem.
Actions taken thus far:
Apologizing hasn't worked
I thought being flirty might make it up to him and that didn't help.
I called A up and was very unhappy with her, but she wont stop saying these things since she keeps insisting that it's wrong.
So general advice?
I know i fucked up massively, but he really enjoyed this and I'm worried he's not going to bounce back.
Tl;dr: Hubby opened up about kink that I've been having a blast with, I said too much at a bar and now a friend is spreading malicious rumors about him. He's not happy and I want to help him feel better.
Submitted November 14, 2019 at 03:44PM by KinkShamethrow423 https://ift.tt/2OdrMrZ
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