I [25M] just found out last night that my gf [24F] of 4 years thinks she might be gay and left me out of nowhere. I’m completely crushed and don’t know what to do.

This happened last night and I’m still hoping it’s just an awful nightmare that I will wake up from soon. The past 4 years have without a doubt been the best years of my life thus far. There has been no inclination that this was going to happen. Hell, she was showing me engagement rings that she likes just two weeks ago.

I’m so crushed. I cannot emphasize that enough. I am BESIDE myself in our apartment. She went home last night and I’ve been balling my eyes out for what feels like an eternity. I don’t know what to do or who to talk to anymore. My family and friends all have my back, of course, but this is a complete bombshell on my life. I just can’t stop crying and begging god to make it stop.

I had no idea she was gay/bi/whatever she might be. I had absolutely no idea. She doesn’t even know herself and that’s why she had to leave me. She is just as crushed as I am as we literally have the best relationship anyone could ask for. This is the lowest I’ve ever felt and I just want her to come home.

Do I give her space? How do I go back to work on Monday? What about our lease together? What do I do? I have no idea what to do besides pace around our apartment and cry.

TL;DR gf of 4 years dropped an absolute bombshell on me last night and I don’t know what to do. I’m completely lost and so sad. I’m so hurt and angry but I don’t even know who or what I’m angry at. I feel awful for her but I’m also so hurt.

Submitted August 24, 2019 at 10:04AM by I_Nut_In_Butts https://ift.tt/30wrK3x