So, I moved In with my boyfriend to the Capitol city of my state. My mom and all my sisters (besides the oldest who is married) live down with her about 45 minutes away from me. Since I moved out, every weekend my mom will come and invite all my sisters, to come to the city I live in for festivals and restaurants. This has happened for over 2 years, and not once have I received an invite. Whenever I talk to her on the phone, she always talks about how much she misses me, but when I go and visit her, and drive 45 minutes to her house, she blatantly ignores me. She will sit on her phone the entire time, and doesnt listen to anything I have to say. She has never tried to reach out to me personally, or tried to drive up 45 minutes to come see my boyfriends and my place, (she never did when I lived on my own, too). I just dont know what to do. Do I talk to her about it? Do I ignore it and forget about why this even bugs me? I think the thing that bothers me the most, is that she will always go out of her way to invite my sister who is married, so I know it's not an issue that I dont live with her. I have lived with my boyfriend for a year, out on my own for two. Shes been over once for an hour, when I lived on my own, because I invited her. She also hosts every party for birthdays/holidays/Sunday dinners so my boyfriend and I will drive down 45 minutes to see her. But not once has she returned the favor. I've always known I'm not the favorite daughter, but man it bothers me that she likes to make it obvious.
Tldr; live with my boyfriend about 45 minutes away from my mom. Mom will drive to my city frequently, never comes to visit, or bother to invite me. But invites the rest of my sisters everytime.
Submitted June 23, 2019 at 02:02AM by veraelasia http://bit.ly/2WYeLK6
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