Me(34/f) and my bf(28/m) of 2 yrs have been discussing marriage and he paid for my engagement ring out of our joint account using my tax refund. Am I wrong for being upset and feeling like I paid for my ring?

UPDATE: Thank you for all of your opinions on this. He and I have come to an agreement and he will sell 2 of the 4 guns. He wants me to have the nicer ring and we are gonna go on a shorter vacation with the kids with the money from the sale of the guns. We are also going to go to Legoland instead of Disney now.

My bf and I have been together for 2 years but I've known each other for 8 years. I am divorced with three kids. He is the most amazing and wonderful individual. Is an absolutely wonderful step parent to the kids and they absolutely adore him as much as I do. I am just ticked off but I feel like just bought my ring. I have asked him to sell his guns to pay me back. I have no issue with him having these guns since we usually go to the range together for an occasional date night. Am I wrong for this? Should I just go with it? This honestly would not be the first time I've had to pay for my ring since I did the same thing with my ex-husband. I was just hoping that this time would be different.

I need to clarify that he told me he was gonna buy something as we discuss big purchases beforehand but I thought he was gonna get the less expensive ring ($500) I had also looked at.

I had other plans for those funds to take us on a family weekend getaway. He spent $1500 which is what it was gonna cost for our family weekend trip.

TL/DR am I wrong for being upset that he paid for my engagement ring using my tax return money.

Submitted March 02, 2019 at 08:54AM by tragedyiam84 https://ift.tt/2Et93Uh