[UPDATE] My (24m) little brother (16m) got his girlfriend (16f) pregnant. They are asking me for help/advice and I don’t know what to do.
So it’s been a few weeks but I figured people might want an update.
Basically what happened with Ben’s girlfriend is that I told them that I would pay for half of the cost of the abortion and I would drive them but I wouldn’t let her stay with me.
I drove them, gave them half in cash like I said, and I drove them back to my place and told them to find their own way home from there (harsh I know but I was trying to cover my own ass as much as possible).
What I didn’t know was that Ben and his girl ended up going to mine and Ben’s parents house to recover and our parents ended up calling her parents to tell them what was going on.
I guess under the pressure they caved and told all of the parents that I drove and paid for the abortion. Next thing I knew I had the angry parents of a 16 year old girl on my doorstep accusing me of manipulating this girl into getting an abortion (pretty sure there were undertones of them accusing me of getting her pregnant but they didn’t say this outright).
I also had my parents contact me (one of the few times they actually have over the past little while) to accuse me of manipulating this girl and using my “drug money” to “traumatize” this girl. I all but shut the door in their face, yelling that they just don’t want to see Ben as anything else but the golden child and want to keep seeing me as the black sheep.
A few days later I heard from Ben that he fessed up to the reality of the whole situation and that my name has basically been dropped from the conversation (for now). I haven’t heard anything about it since then. The girl seems to be doing okay.
Thanks for all the advice I received previously.
Tl;dr: Ended up driving and paying for half the abortion. Got into trouble but everything seems to be okay now.
Submitted December 01, 2018 at 06:59PM by toomichll https://ift.tt/2Qb6nn1
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