My GF and I earlier this went through a serious rough patch in our relationship. A lot of arguing, fighting, and disagreements occurred during this time. Right when we were coming out of our one of our arguments and seem like we were okay she wanted to have a serious talk. At this time my girl was really pushing for me to propose. She wants to be married by a certain age and have kids by a certain time I felt like we weren’t ready for that big step yet because of the position we were in our relationship.
When she told me she wanted to have this serious talk I was all for it. She spoke about life and what she wants and she told me “I won’t do wifey things if I’m not your wife”. When She says this it really caught me off guard because for her I ran to the end of the world for her and back. Not complaining or anything I’ve done alot for her. I’ve paid her rent when I knew she wouldn’t be able to I’ve taken her on vacations when I knew she needed to take a break from the real world. When she was in college I would stay up with her and help her study and wait at her school till 1 in the morning sometimes to pick her up. I would help get through her deep depressive state when she would get for weeks at a time.
At the time of when said that I just said “I won’t do husband things if I’m not your husband” then I brought all the things I have done for her that I listed above and more. I’m not eh type of guy that will throw something in your face if I do Yous favor. She wouldnt ask me to do these things I would them because I love her. I want to make sure she is taken care of. She took it back but it still sticks with me to this day but everyone I bring it up. She says I already said sorry but I still feel really shitty about it. Should I try talking about again or try to move on from it.
TLDR: My GF and I were going through a rough patch in our relationship and determine what the next step for us was. She wanted marriage I thought we weren’t ready and she said “I won’t do wifey things if I’m not your wife”. It hurt me deep and we have talked about it but it still sticks with me.
Submitted November 03, 2021 at 05:43AM by slikboi https://ift.tt/3bHV6mo
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